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热度 128已有 9370 次阅读2008-10-3 01:01 |个人分类:有感

    今天偶然看到段小文章,大意说有对男女一见钟情便成了神仙眷侣,如漆似胶好了两年。有日那女朋友突发感悟,说本来为了工作想去考研,因为他这两年什么也没做;而男的呢,本来想出国深造,为了她也放弃了。女的感叹说以后怎么办。其实,他们只要扪心自问:这两年自己觉得幸福吗?人生是为了什么?不一定非要有五年计划、十年计划,重要的是现在,你很快乐...
   
    有感而发,外国人是先享受后买单;中国人通常是先买单后享受。不论买房买车等诸如此类的事,我们从小接受的教育便是如此,天下没有白食的午餐!
   
    可是你现在快乐吗?如果你现在真正的很快乐,那就忘了过去和将来吧...

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回复 jinyu 2008-10-3 09:31
我们都应很快乐,每天一睁眼就可以看到初生的太阳,没有赶上灾荒、没有亲临地震、没有遭遇战争.......四体健全,没有恶疾,能够和家人朝夕相处,拥有几个知心好友,有一份工作解决我们的温饱,闲时还可以做一点自己喜欢的事情,优哉游哉地读读书看看电影上上网聊聊天,跟随未谋面但志同道合的朋友谈论一下我们喜爱的tik.......人生如此,夫复何求?
回复 joy.xq 2008-10-3 13:42
是啊,怀着感激的心过每一天,也许快乐很简单。
回复 vichida 2008-10-3 22:47
这俩一定是已经跟彼此不太快乐了才想到这么多身外事
回复 joy.xq 2008-10-3 22:54
vichida: 这俩一定是已经跟彼此不太快乐了才想到这么多身外事
激情总会褪去,爱情也总会停顿,所以现实中仅凭爱情很难长久吧?
回复 vichida 2008-10-3 23:08
joy.xq: 激情总会褪去,爱情也总会停顿,所以现实中仅凭爱情很难长久吧?
是啊。重点是爱情有很多种,健全的衰弱的,纯洁的复杂的。。。我想要长久,还是必须心灵相通,性情相投罢——现在觉得,那种朋友似的爱情比较容易守护。
回复 红大狼 2008-10-4 09:22
忘了人生俗事,开开心心过好每一天!
回复 ILOVUTIK 2008-10-4 11:44
没错,所以要珍惜当下,偶就是正在享受当下!
回复 joy.xq 2008-10-5 01:31
caicj919: 忘了人生俗事,开开心心过好每一天!
给我一杯忘情水…… 或者孟婆汤也可。
回复 红大狼 2008-10-5 08:27
水太冻了,汤太烫了,给你一碗皮蛋瘦肉粥,暖暖你的心!
回复 joy.xq 2008-10-5 13:14
caicj919: 水太冻了,汤太烫了,给你一碗皮蛋瘦肉粥,暖暖你的心!
铁三角亲,偶喜欢皮蛋瘦肉粥,你真好!爱死你啦!
回复 为他祝福 2008-10-6 18:57
jinyu: 我们都应很快乐,每天一睁眼就可以看到初生的太阳,没有赶上灾荒、没有亲临地震、没有遭遇战争.......四体健全,没有恶疾,能够和家人朝夕相处,拥有几个知心好
jinyu,你还欠偶们一个《眼睛续》以及《将帅之血》续篇,所以……
回复 为他祝福 2008-10-6 18:58
我也喜欢皮蛋瘦肉粥……铁三角能给一碗吗?
回复 杏花疏影 2008-10-6 19:03
为他祝福: jinyu,你还欠偶们一个《眼睛续》以及《将帅之血》续篇,所以……
哎呀,那叫《军政风云》!
回复 杏花疏影 2008-10-6 19:04
皮蛋瘦肉粥...偶在加班,谁能帮忙叫外卖?
回复 为他祝福 2008-10-6 19:06
对对,真该打,就是《军政风云》,jinyu,你不要逃哦!
回复 joy.xq 2008-10-6 20:33
杏花疏影: 皮蛋瘦肉粥...偶在加班,谁能帮忙叫外卖?
我就是送外卖的,就来就来!
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